* DOC: Update release instructions

* revert accidental changes

* Update maintaining.rst

* Update doc/source/development/maintaining.rst

Co-authored-by: Matthew Roeschke <10647082+mroeschke@users.noreply.github.com>

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Co-authored-by: Matthew Roeschke <10647082+mroeschke@users.noreply.github.com>